Our Wedding Anniversary Is Coming Up, But It’s No Big Deal, Right?

Yep, October 9th is coming up.  The very day I finally tricked Husbando into putting a ring on it.

But I don't know what to DO about it.  It's not like it's a big milestone anniversary (only four years).  I mean, I don't want to spend a whole lot of money or anything. He already got his present ages ago (he wanted a new set of headphones for his Xbox, came in the mail like, two weeks ago and he just had to have it). I already got mine too, he can't wait when it comes to gifts. I know it's a special day/evening, but.... I don't know. It just doesn't seem like a time to go hoopin and hollerin right now.  We pretty much have to have dinner at old people's time.  We're kinda boring by nature.

I like it, though.

I mean, not that a normal night at my house is that exciting anyway.  We pretty much just hang out and don't really go out Clubbin', if you will.  Too old for that.  I talk a lot at my job, and I have to think about what I say before I say it alot, so when I get home, I kinda just...shut  up.  I can easily go an hour without saying a word to Husbando.  We talk, sure, but mostly we just enjoy sitting on the couch together.  He works on his little projects, and I go down the rabbit hole of whatever thing I'm obsessed with on the internet.

So a night in with a nice meal might not be out of the question. You don't have to go out to have a good time.  But, we do have some gift certificates for some local places, maybe we should use those up.  I don't know.  We haven't been out for a long time, and so far it's been okay.

Do you do anything special for your anniversaries?  What would you recommend we try? Should we go out, or should we just stay in?

Help a lady out, please!

Anniversarily yours,
Behka