You're 21, ready to tackle life and...committed? Yes! It can work, and this post is to all you young ladies out there who are scared or need reassurance that it is okay to be "tied down" and love it! Also for the ladies who are single and not sure if it is right for you right now. It can be great! Some people say being in a serious relationship right now is a waste of time, but i couldn't disagree more.